In preperation of our Tantric Dominance session I would like to know some stuff about you.
• What are you seeking to experience? Is it primarily pain and pleasure, or emotions; Humiliation? Bratty? Degration? Erotic tease? Provocation? Other?
• Do you have a nickname you would like me to use? If not, that’s totally fine.
what turns you on? Put all the fetishes, toys and activities you enjoy/want to try during the session. It doesn't mean I'll do them all, it is more of an ingredient list to choose from.
Cock cage - Flogger - Riding Crop whip - Waxing - Wartenberg wheel - Rope bondage - Gag-ball - Butt plug - Strap-on - Cross dressing - Hand spanking - Face slaps - Spitting - Wet
The activities you are unsure, curious and tempted- but a bit scared of goes in the maybe list. I will let you know more about how I will perform the things in your maybe list before you consent.
What turns you off, your boundaries and limits.
For example: marks that last a few days, particular role plays that triggers you in a negative way, places on your body that you don’t want me to touch? I'll stay clear of these..
Kudos to my mentor Mistress Kalyss Mercury, who is the inventor of the HYMN.
Not everyone knows their own boundaries before they have been crossed, but it’s important to communicate when this happens. To make it easier I will give you some code words to use.
I will ask you to give me a number from 1-9:
❤ 1-7 means GREEN: 1- that you are doing fine(a bit bored maybe) or 7- like it ALOT.
❤ 8 means PERFECT, continiue just like that!
❤ 9 is above your (pain) treshold and you want me to be a bit nicer or do something else.
Or a color:
🙃 Yellow means: I want to say something regarding the session.
💔 Red means: I don't want to continiue the session, let's stop it here.